When I say ‘let’s talk’ does this scare you? For some it should, you know when a woman says, ‘We need to talk,’ it can cause some men to pull up short, shiver in their boots in the sun’s heat, or run and hide. But truthfully, I think it is time for us to have a serious conversation about our shared world.
Now, most of us know we are not the same. Men and women, that is, we are not the same. We were never intended to be the same; we are different for a reason. We complement each other; we balance each other. Men and women are the yin and yang of the world, we are inseparable yet contradictory opposites.
What does this mean in today’s world of division, opposition, and power struggles.
First, it means we don’t understand our real place in the world, so we are constantly clinging to old ways. What is fascinating is watching not just those who have something to gain if they win, but those who have everything to lose and yet still follow the path of either least resistance or worse belief the old ways are best.
Every time I see a woman who supports ‘traditional’ roles without considering outcomes, I want to gnash my teeth, or shake her. Now, do not mistake me, there is nothing wrong with making a personal choice to become a ‘stay-at-home’ wife and mother, if this is truly a personal choice. There is nothing wrong with celebrating the opportunity to raise your children and care for your home, not one single thing. However, what are you doing to ensure your future? Do you have a fallback position? Is your future secure? Can you financially care for yourself if something were to happen to your husband, or should your husband decide you are no longer what he wants and he throws you out for a newer model?
Just asking the question that needs to be asked.
Then there are those women with a platform who use their megaphones to deride other women and strip other women of their opportunities and choices. I honestly don’t just want to shake them, I want their mouths to be duct taped and their megaphones to be stripped from them, permanently. These women
are dangerous. They are in it for no reason but performance and attention. While they are making more money than their education would command in the private sector, they are intentionally promoting other women’s loss of rights and opportunities. Let’s be clear, these are the women who cheered the Dodd decision, while actively swallowing their birth control pill every morning. THEY ARE NOT PRO LIFE! What they are is Anti Choice for any woman that is not them. What they are is anti opportunity for any woman that is not them, does not look like them, and does not vote like them. What they are is members of a cult that wants to strip men and women of the right to vote unless that vote is cast for them and theirs.
Just pointing out the obvious, at least I hope it is obvious.
Now we come to the present.
Joe Biden made the hard decision to drop out of the Presidential Race. I hate how he was publicly pressured. I hate how he was publicly embarrassed. I think he deserved better. I am proud of our President and the grace he ultimately showed in his withdrawal and his endorsement of Kamala Harris, his own Vice President.
Kamala Harris, Vice President of the United States of America and Presidential Nominee of the Democratic Party. First Bi-Racial Vice President. First Bi-Racial Presidential Nominee of a major party. First Woman Vice President. She has energized the Democratic Party with her campaign. With ninety-three (93) days before
the election, she has had to kick-off campaigning, vet potential vice presidential governing mates, and raise money. She has had to reach out to the cohorts that were indifferent to the Biden campaign and try to win them over, and she has had to try to figure out how she is going to Beat Trump.
What do you think so far?
I have heard a great deal of nonsense so far especially about how America is not ready for a Woman President, and White People won’t vote for her. Here is what I think based on what I see.
- She has outpaced fund raising, by millions. The grassroots think she is worth backing and so do many others.
- She has the infrastructure in place to knock on doors and talk to people. The volunteers are already out there, it is amazing to see her team at work in just three short weeks. Just to point out the obvious, her team is from all races, all genders.
- She hit the campaign trail without blinking an eye. She has crisscrossed the country and she is talking policy. Even where her policy might differ from the administration policy she is plain spoken, unafraid, and clear about where she stands.
- She doesn’t insult or play childish games with her opponent, she simply answers with, “I am ready, Say it to my Face.” I love her for this!
I am fascinated by the fact the Trump team do not know what to do with a Woman at the head of the ticket. I am even more fascinated they don’t know what to do with a bi-racial woman at the head of the ticket. So what do they do? Drag out their old tired attacks from the Obama years and hope they land. All I can say, we are not the same; men and women that is, we are not the same. This applies equally to the nation, we are not the same nation we were eight years ago and I believe many of us don’t want to go back. I strongly believe there are Democrats, Independents, even Republicans who are looking at the very real differences between the old and tired Donald J. Trump and the new and energized Kamala Harris and saying to themselves, “It is time for change, time for positive energy to move us forward.”
For me? I believe in the country and I believe that most of us will not be held back by ignorance when we step into the polls to cast our votes. We are not the same, but sometimes we come together for the right reasons.
free and standing alongside their progeny as equals. Clearly, with the words “all men,” they failed to imagine that one day, women would rise up, independent of their fathers and husbands. Yet here we are, men and women, standing in the town square and speaking out with diverse voices and experiences.
Here is a sad truth about Americans, one-fifth of Americans between 18-29 believe the Holocaust is a myth. WTF you say, right that is what I say, too. The truth is, the genocide of six million Jewish people, the destruction of the European Romany people, the cruel murder of those deemed ‘less’ the crippled, the mentally disabled; all of this isn’t taught in many US public schools today. But there you have it, the failure of the local systems to teach ‘real’ history about genocide, slavery, and land theft; all of it means we have two, maybe three generations of ignorant, myopic, selfish, and ill-prepared human beings entering the world and these are the leaders of the future; God help us.
and neck right now. One is currently sitting in court every single day as a ‘defendant’ in one of many of his criminal cases. The other is the President of the United States. One wants to be a Dictator. The other wants to be President one more time. Both are in their sunset years. One is a vulgarian, a want-to-be despot, and a traitor to everything this nation says they hold precious. The other, well, he has served this nation his entire adult life; I know that I haven’t always agreed with him, but I also know that he doesn’t want to burn this nation down.




do anything, up to and including giving away democracy. What is fascinating and terrible about this is that most of those White Men are poor, under-educated, and under-employed. Truthfully, they are no better off and in some cases, worse off than the people they despise. What they know is that their hero has promised them a better, whiter world where they will thrive because they will once again be at the top of the food chain.
Business fraud? They lied and cheated; it’s a witch hunt.

the lives of their born children. All because strangers who have no genuine vested interest have determined their ‘faith’ and ‘religion’ demand compliance to their biblical interpretations. Not science, not medicine, but religious submission. Thou shalt not kill; unless it is with a gun and you are already a living and breathing child of someone who loves you, then by any God you worship, all bets are off.
Of course, we know why Justice Thomas didn’t touch Loving in his sweeping view of what should be undone. Ginny Thomas, his seditionist White Wife, would suddenly no longer be his wife; his marriage would be illegal. He could no longer claim membership in that special and rarefied place he currently occupies because, despite his many accomplishments, his seditionist White Wife provides him a certain gloss he would not otherwise have.
Do you know how things change? When enough people say enough. When the pain is bad enough, all the small differences finally melt away, and people find common ground and say to each other, “this shall not pass.” Things change when good people no longer turn away.
We, the majority, are the only ones who can give our dead the answers they deserve. We can do this thing that we have failed to do for so long. President Lyndon B. Johnson and his Congress did it in 1968 by passing and signing the Gun Control Act of 1968, driven primarily by the assassination of Robert Kennedy and Martin Luther King. The act prohibited mail-order sales of rifles and shotguns; it also banned most felons, known drug users and those found to be mentally incompetent from purchasing or owning guns.

“Mothers and children trapped in poverty in our inner cities, rusted out factories, scattered like tombstones across the across the landscape of our nation, an education system flush with cash, but which leaves our young and beautiful students deprived of all knowledge, and the crime, and the gangs, and the drugs that have stolen too many lives and robbed our country of so much unrealized potential. This American carnage stops right here and stops right now.”
Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” July 4, 1776
men and women were considered equal under the law; before we could all vote, have bank accounts, have credit and mortgages, access to education, marry who we choose, body autonomy, and a host of other things White Men have always taken for granted. White Men never feared lynching, never feared the loss of their freedom, the loss of their income, the loss of their homes, the loss of their choices or their families. White Men never questioned their right to the voting booth, not one time in the history of this nation have White Men ever questioned their right to exist in this nation or their inalienable Rights to Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.
Theory and its proponents on Fox News and the floor of Congress and state legislatures. This ugly ‘Theory’ isn’t new, isn’t something that comes to us fresh out of the minds of those who sit in back rooms at Fox, Heritage Foundation, The Blaze, and Breitbart whipping up the next big thing. This is not the something cooked up in a vacuum by terrified old White Men who see their power trickling away. There is a direct line from Theodore Gilmore Bilbo, two-time Governor of Mississippi (1916-1920 & 1928-1932), US Senator (1935-1947), member of the KKK, and author of Take Your Choice: Separation or Mongeralization, an ode to pro-segregation.
Shortly thereafter, in 1994 the Ukraine, along with Belarus and Kazakhstan signed the Budapest Memorandum, with the US, UK and Russia guaranteeing their security in return for their denuclearization. At the time the Ukraine was the third-largest nuclear power in the world behind Russia and the United States. I am betting they regret that decision today.
invasion of Georgia in 2008, the West barely lifted an eyebrow. Leading to his annexation of Crimea and Donbas in 2014, originally part of Ukraine, where again the West barely moved from their stance of pacification.
residential areas, hospitals, orphanages, aid convoys. The people in cities are in most cases without food, water, heat; it is a human tragedy of catastrophic proportions. Refugees, mostly women and children, old people are fleeing in the millions to neighboring nations.
dysfunctional government we have today. It is this mindset that provides us with the churn we generally see at mid-term elections. Our inability to understand the real economy. Our failure to look beyond the right here and right now, causes us to elect fools and hustlers to lead what was once the greatest nation and is now something far less.
decry the price of gas for our big trucks and SUV’s. We complain about the cost of food at the grocery store. Some of us though spend our days listening to the ravings of the pro-Putin arm of the GOP and their apologists on Fox and elsewhere while real human beings in Ukraine are starving, while children are dying of dehydration, while bombs are targeted at residential buildings, children’s hospitals and families are simply trying to escape the carnage. While fools with over inflated egos are beating their chests with their pretend versions of patriotism and stolen elections, real patriots are standing in the streets in every city of Ukraine and saying to the madman Putin, “You shall not pass, you will not have my freedom.”


